The Root of the Argument
How we approach an argument, big or small, sets the tone for its resolution (or...
Love to Fight and Fight to Love
Fighting, done well, benefits relationships. Long-term relationships don't survive because of great date nights or...
Learning to Love Through Struggle
Win or Lose Together I was in a restaurant having dinner with a friend when...
Your Partner Is Your Guru
There is an old Zen story about a young man who, looking for a teacher,...
Define Love Before You Think It, Feel It, or Say It
We say "I love you," or wait for the right time to say it, or...
Karma and Relationships
I had a client whose ex left an impression on her. He was extremely ambitious,...