Be Deliberate In What You Focus On
You are what you focus on. Are you giving enough weight to that fact? Are...
Being Right All The Time Doesn’t Make Me An Ass
Being right all the time totally makes you an ass. It does. I suffered from...
Everyone Is Thinking About What I’m Doing
I was a nerd growing up. I mean, I'm a nerd now, but I like...
A Drink Will Make This Better
Speaking of having it all together, this may be the chapter where you ask for...
I Have To Have It All Together
I have negotiated business deals for the better part of twenty-five years. These deals involved...
The Things That Have Worked Are The Things That Will Work
I was in the early days of the biggest leap of my professional career. I'd...
Speaking Effectively to Each Tendency
Whether we're at work, at home, or out in the world, we're all constantly trying...
When the Four Tendencies Pair Up
No relationship is doomed, or assured, based on the Tendencies. Nevertheless, when people from different...
How Obligers Can Manage the Pros and Cons of the Tendency
Some Obligers embrace the Obliger Tendence; they see it as a virtue and a strength....