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Speaking Effectively to Each Tendency
Whether we're at work, at home, or out in the world, we're all constantly trying...
When the Four Tendencies Pair Up
No relationship is doomed, or assured, based on the Tendencies. Nevertheless, when people from different...
How Obligers Can Manage the Pros and Cons of the Tendency
Some Obligers embrace the Obliger Tendence; they see it as a virtue and a strength....
Why Questioners Dislike Being Questioned
There's a great irony lurking in the heart of the Questioner Tendency. I knew that...
Weaknesses (and Strengths)
As with all the Tendencies, the Upholders' strengths can become weaknesses. The Upholder can become...
Strengths (and Weaknesses)
I can say from personal experience-and of course I'm biased-that there are many terrific aspects...
Understanding the Upholder
In life, we all confront two kinds of expectations. We face the outer expectations that...
Why It’s Helpful to Identify Others’ Tendencies
On the flip side, when we understand others' Tendencies, we're more tolerant of them. For...
The Four Tendencies
Why It's Helpful to Identify Our Own Tendency When I describe the Four Tendencies, I...