Anxiety-The Ultimate One Page Care
Feeling anxious?
Try this simple tool:
→ Anxiety Tracking
“What’s that?”
It’s a tool to help you monitor when you feel anxious.
So you can:
→ Know yourself better
→ Develop strategies based on that
Let’s see how to use it in 5 steps.
1. When you feel anxious or even a little bit worried, do this:
→ Take your journal and write down the emotion or feeling you’re experiencing.
Remember to date it for “today.”
For example:
→ February 7, 2024 – 8:30 AM – Anxiety
Record it right away or after a couple of hours.
2. Alongside the emotion/feeling, note what influenced your feelings.
You can write:
→ A specific event
→ A specific interaction
→ A specific circumstance
→ A specific conversation with someone
Your journal entry might look like this:
→ February 7, 2024 – 8:30 AM – Anxiety
→ Felt a bit anxious after a work meeting, especially after talking to Markus.
3. On a specific day of the week, (Saturday, for example) do this:
→ Review all your weekly tracking.
What’s the goal?
Simple: identifying patterns.
Look for recurring emotions and common triggers.
For example you might notice:
→ You felt anxious 5 times during the week
→ 3 out of those 5 times, you felt anxious after talking with Markus
→ 2 out of those 5 times, you felt anxious after talking with Cloe
4. Reflect on patterns
After reviewing your tracking, take a moment to reflect on your patterns.
For example, based on the previous example, your reflections could be:
→ I don’t feel anxious when I’m alone
→ I don’t feel anxious when I think about the future
→ I feel anxious after some conversations.
Now your reflection becomes:
→ “Uhm, okay, what type of conversation makes me anxious?”
Put simply, you’re gonna reverse engineer your anxiety.
And don’t worry, after 4-6 weeks you’ll master this skill very well.
5. Take action based on your reflections.
For example, if you’ve realized you’re anxious after a conversation, you may want to:
→ Improve your communication skills
→ Improve your approach to getting feedback
→ Improve how you react emotionally during and after some conversations