5 Conflict Management Styles
I used to fear conflicts until I realized:
You always win when you know how to manage them.
There are 5 basic ways people behave when they respond to conflict.
And each comes with its own advantages and disadvantages. 👇
1. Avoiding (Turtle)
+ Temporarily defuses tension and allows time for emotions to cool down.
– Issues remain unresolved and may lead to resentment or the buildup of unresolved conflicts.
2. Competing (Shark)
+ Assertive and decisive, ensures immediate action.
– It can damage relationships, escalate conflict, and may lead to win-lose outcomes.
3. Accommodating (Teddy Bear)
+ Promotes harmony and goodwill and fosters cooperation.
– May lead to feelings of being taken advantage of, issues may not be addressed effectively.
4. Compromising (Fox)
+ Finds middle ground, maintains relationships, and achieves partial satisfaction for both parties.
– It may result in the loss of individual needs or goals and may not fully resolve underlying issues.
5. Cooperating (Owl)
+ Encourages open communication and collaboration and seeks win-win solutions.
– Requires time and effort to find mutually beneficial solutions. May not always be possible in every situation.
Conflict is a natural part of human interaction.
Every conflict we face in life is rich with positive and negative potential.
The choice of how to approach it is entirely ours. 🙌