10 Ways To Cultivate Empathy
“Empathy is guided by emotional intelligence.
And sparks authentic human connections.
Empathy isn’t just about understanding others.
It’s about seeing the world through their eyes,
feeling what they feel, and responding with genuine compassion.
Imagine walking a mile in someone else’s shoes.
Not just hearing, but truly listening.
That’s empathy.
Here are 10 Ways to Cultivate Empathy.
1. Practise Active Listening
➟ Pay attention to what the person is saying without interrupting.
2. Put Yourself in Their Shoes
➟ Think about how they might be feeling
↳ and what they might need right now.
3. Validate Emotions.
➟ Let them know it’s okay to feel the way they do.
4. Ask Open-Ended Questions.
➟ Encourage deeper conversation.
Ask questions to learn more about their experiences and feelings.
5. Use Empathetic Body Language.
➟ Maintain eye contact, nod in understanding,
↳ and use comforting gestures.
6. Share Your Own Experiences.
➟ When appropriate, share similar experiences or feelings
↳ to show solidarity and that you understand.
7. See from Their Perspective.
➟ Try to see things from their point of view.
Consider factors affecting feelings & behaviour.
8. Notice Their Body Language.
➟ Pay attention to tone of voice, facial expressions, and body language
↳ to better understand how they’re feeling.
9. Stay Curious.
➟ Be genuinely interested in what they have to say
↳ and be open to learning from others.
10. Practice every day.
➟ Make a conscious effort to be empathetic in all your interactions,
↳ whether at work or with friends and family.
“Empathy is seeing with the eyes of another,
listening with the ears of another,
and feeling with the heart of another.”
— Alfred Adler
Empathy is more than a soft skill.
It’s a strategic asset in any leader’s toolkit.