Warning Signs Of Toxic People-The Manipulator

How can you deal with The Manipulator?
Here are 5 tactics (with examples):

1.    First off, your communication with them matters.
Why?
Because they use cunning tactics to control and influence you.
So, make sure to communicate assertively.

For example you can say:
→    “Got your point, but I gotta prioritize my stuff right now”
→    “Understood, but I need to focus on my priorities at the moment”

2.    When they try to manipulate you, ask for clarification immediately.
Hey, immediately!!
They don’t have to have a space to keep talking.

For example you can say:
→    “One second, I’m a bit lost. Can you break down why you’re asking for this?”
→    “Wait a second, just to understand. Can you tell me what you mean by…?”

3.    When they have weird intentions, question them.

For example you can say:
→    “Just a question: How’s this approach good for both of us?”
→    “Tell me, why do you think this approach is good for both of us?”

4.    Let them know you’re independent.
They gotta realize you can live just fine without them.

For example you can say:
→    “I like being together, but I also need to do my own things. Let’s find a middle ground”
→    “Got it. Now I need some space to do my thing. Let’s work independently for a bit”

5.   When you’re feeling emotionally bad, just hold off on the conversation with them.
Give your emotions some time to settle down.
The risk is ending up on the wrong side of the fence.
And they are pretty good at taking advantage of it.

So use these phrases:
→    “I hear ya. Let’s talk about it when things cool down”
→    “I get it. Let’s chat when things chill out a bit”
These are the 5 tactics you can use with The Manipulator.

And if you think it’s time to walk away, maybe you want to say just this:
→    “I really care about us, but if we can’t figure this out, I might need to reassess where we stand”.

It’s for your wellbeing — don’t forget it.