The Big 5 Personality Traits

How can you communicate with these Big 5?

Here are 5 tactics:
(remember: each of us is unique, so no labels)

1.    The Adventurer
Do you know those people who love trying new things?
Those who are excited about exploring new perspectives?

Well, let’s try to use these phrases with them:
→    Hey, let’s explore this together
→    You know what, your creativity is inspiring
→    Wow! Have you ever been so open-minded?

Now your question is:
→    Why should these phrases work?

Well, for two reasons:
→    They let people know we appreciate their unique perspectives
→    They let people know we appreciate their adventurous spirit.

2.    The Social Butterfly
Do you know that guy who grew up in the Dolomites and is trying to bring you value?
I’m joking — but yes, I see myself a lot in the Social Butterfly.
We just love social settings and spending time with people.
It gives us energy.

Now the question is:
→    How can you communicate with them?

Well, let’s try with these phrases:
→    I love our lively chats!
→    You’re so full of energy!
→    Hanging out with you feels like a party!

These phrases work for two reasons:
→    They let people know we appreciate their social nature
→    They let people know we appreciate their positive impact on the relationship.

3.    The Team Player
Here it’s simple: their mantra is Harmony.
They love creating a friendly and comfortable atmosphere, even during conflict.

So let’s try to use these phrases with them:
→    Thanks for being so kind
→    I love how much joy our connection brings
→    You’re amazing at finding compromises all the time

These phrases make them realize that:
→    We love their kindness
→    We appreciate how they ‘fight’ to create a positive atmosphere.

4.   The Go-Getter
Here the mantra changes.
It’s not “harmony”, but “organization”.
They love having everything organized and planned.

So let’s use these phrases with them:
→    I wanna plan like you do
→    I really admire how dedicated you are
→    I don’t know how you manage to be so precise

These phrases let them know that:
→    We appreciate their organization
→    We appreciate their efforts to have everything in order

5.    The Resilient Rock
Do you know those people with incredible resilience despite their ups and downs?

Well, let’s try using these phrases with them:
→    Your strength inspires me
→    I’m here for you no matter what
→    We navigate life’s ups and downs together

These phrases make them know that:
→    We appreciate their resilience
→    We understand their emotional challenges and can offer them support.